In Lead Your Family
Like Jesus, Ken Blanchard, Phil Hodges, and Tricia Goyer have collaborated
on the principles of how to lead and parent your family. The book covered 12
important principles to impact your family for the glory of God. For example, some
of these included, “Saying No to EGO”, “An Audience of One”, “Family Values”, “For
a Limited Time Only”, “Teaching to the Test”, and much more. Leading your
family requires serving one another, providing unconditional love to each
family member, teaching children in the way they are supposed to go, and how
they are expected to behave.
The book was divided into four sections, “Heart”, “Head”,
“Hands”, and “Habits”.
The heart consisted of focusing on the internal issues
and not letting your pride and ego drive how you raise your children. It’s
critical that we don’t overly push our children to succeed to make us feel like
we’re better parents than other parents. We have to identify why we really want
our children to get good grades. Is it because we’re comparing ourselves to
other parents to inflate our pride? If so, we have to change and stop comparing
our kids to other kids.
The head section was about writing down a vision, your core
values, and goals for your family.
The hands covered the significance of being hands on in
your parenting. It’s viral to keep in mind that we have our children only for a
small amount of time. This segment will teach parents to set goals for your
children. Then coach them throughout the different stages of their life where
they can learn responsibility and become effective adults.
The habits involved having alone time with the Creator,
praying for your spouse and children, studying scriptures, and forgiving and
extending grace.
I really loved the idea of having family values and writing
down a mission statement for the direction you want your family to follow. My
values are thankfulness, uniqueness, unity, sharing, responsibility,
respect, love, justice, integrity, and making a difference. Ken Blanchard recommended
to pick four values to describe your family’s values. If I had to choose only
four mine would be: thankfulness, love, respect, and integrity. My first value is
thankfulness- I stand for being grateful for all the things God has blessed our
family with. I want to instill in my kids the importance of praising God for
everything He has provided for us. My second value is love- I want to pass down
the unconditionally love God has shown me to my kids where my grandkids will
one day continue passing down the legacy and they will give away their love to
others. My third value is respect- I want to teach my kids to respect their
parents and to use their manners. My four value is integrity- I want to exhibit
honesty and keeping their word. I noticed that it is also truly difficult in
keeping the values to just four values.
Ken Blanchard also stated, “What’s the
purpose of your family? What’s your picture of the future? What values will
guide your journey? What goals do you want your family members to focus on
today?” (Page 56). The purpose of my family is to show my wife and our children
the unconditional love of Christ in each and every day. I want to pray over my
children lives and pray for their future spouses and I want to begin whenever
we know we’re expecting and continue praying for them until I die. I want to
instill the importance of studying God’s Word and I want to teach them to pray
to their Heavenly Father about their concerns and desires. My picture of my
family is to teach them to use manners and responsibility. I want them to make
their beds, take turns taking out the trash, mowing the grass, setting the table,
and cooking meals to where they are able to become better adults. My goals for
my children is to make at least a B letter grade where they can do well in
school.
I would recommend this magnificent Focus on the Family book to all parents and people who are wanting
to have children at some point in their lives. This book is for men and women
and it will be a great resource to read together as a couple. Grandparents
could also read and benefit from reading this book. This book will outstandingly
influence you and your family in your parenting tactics. I immensely enjoyed
reading and learning firsthand about some of the issues the parents have to
face and deal with. I also loved the extra everyday people they surveyed and
asked about parenting and what they have learned. I also liked what Tricia
Goyer emphasized how important prayer is and how she prays for her children by
using a neat technique, “Head, Shoulders, Knees, and Toes”. She picked out a scripture
for each body part and prayed it over their lives. This book has benefited me
in learning about parenthood and how to lead my family like Jesus desires me
to. I’m not in the target audience for this book. But when the opportunity came
for me to join Tricia Goyer’s book launch team, I’m sure glad I did! I’m only
twenty-two and not married and I don’t have any children yet. If you could go
ahead and pray that I find my wife and we would be bless with having children.
I would greatly appreciate it. I choose to review this book because I’m a firm
believer in learning from others, who have what you one day are hoping to
experience. This book has helped me to see other parent’s success and failures
in parenting and how to handle managing a family. This book has changed my life
and cause me to discover my values and my vision for my family. I know I will
be rereading this book before I have children and making my wife join me in the
process. I also realize that my wife and I will have to discuss our values and
vision for our family. If you’re looking for a wonderful parenting book, then
this book will massively change your life and your family life will be forever
improved and impacted for the Kingdom of God!
“I received this book for free from Tricia Goyer Launch Group/ Litfuse Publicity Group/
Tyndale House for this review”.
Book
Info:
(Focus on the Family/Tyndale) - Does your family need a
five-star general at the helm? A psychologist? A referee? Ken Blanchard,
best-selling co-author of The One Minute Manager and Lead Like Jesus, points
to a better role model: the Son of God. Joined by veteran parents and authors
Phil Hodges and Tricia Goyer, renowned business mentor Blanchard shows how
every family member benefits when parents take the reins as servant-leaders.
Moms and dads will see themselves in a whole new light-as life-changers who
get their example, strength, and joy from following Jesus at home. This
user-friendly book's practical principles and personal stories mark the path
to a truly Christ-centered family, where integrity, love, grace,
self-sacrifice, and forgiveness make all the difference.
Meet the Authors:
Tricia:
Bestselling author of more than 30 novels, nine nonfiction
books, and more than three hundred articles for national publications; 2003
"Writer of the Year" at the Mount Hermon Christian Writer's
Conference; popular blog writer, speaker, and radio host.
Ken:
Leadership expert and author of over 50 books, including
the New York Times bestseller, The One-Minute Manager; cofounder of
Lead Like Jesus; and coauthor of Lead Like Jesus; Lessons from the
Greatest Leadership Role Model of All Time.
Phil:
A human resource and industrial relations manager in
corporate America for 36 years with Xerox Corporation and U.S. Steel, co-
founder of Lead Like Jesus; co-author of five books, including The Servant
Leader and Leadership by the Book with Bill Hybels.
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