Happily Ever After is a book that helps readers to solve
conflicts in their marriage. We must learn to respect and listen to our
spouses. We have to give up the selfish attitude and the perception that our
point of view is the only correct one. If you want to change your spouse we
have to realize we can't change others. The plank must be removed from our only
eyes before we try and fix someone else. Gary Chapman encouraged readers to ask
their parents, God, in-laws, friends, and their spouses how they could improve
their relationship in their marriage. This is where you can see your flaws and
the issues that you may have that hinder your relationships from growing. Then
you must work to fix the issues that you find.
An important part of the book is finding out your love
language. The five love languages are gifts, acts of service, physical touch,
words of affirmation, and quality time. The book will describe and give an
example of how each love languages work. Once you find how you receive and feel
loved you need to discover your spouse’s love language. Then if you have
children you may want to find out how your children receive and feel loved.
This section will greatly mend your relationships.
Happily Ever After is divided into six parts, “Everybody
Wins”, “Home Improvements”, Profits Sharing”, “Now What?”, “Making Love”, and
“In-Law Relationships”.
Gary Chapman has also included discussion questions at
the end of each chapter. The questions will help you to dig deeper into the
book.
I would recommend this wonderful marriage book to improve
and fix broken marriages. Anyone can benefit from learning their love language,
their spouses, and their children love language. The book has provided me with
great resources and ideas to resolve conflicts in my relationships. I have
learned that I must fix and change myself before I try changing others. I am
the only one that I can control. I can’t control others and their opinions.
It’s important to stop arguing and listen to the other persons concerns.
Marriage isn’t about being always right it’s about coming together for peace
and harmony. Making love isn’t about just having sex it’s about showing each
other love and respect. We have to learn to listen closely and understand how
the other person feels and thinks. If you will apply these six secrets to your
marriage it will change your marriage for the better. I am not married yet but
when I am, I will be rereading this book to help me in my marriage. This is a
great book to give to couples who are getting married or already married! I
would also encourage both spouses to read the book together it help you in your
marriage. Learn to enjoy each other!
Tyndale House Publishers has provided me with a
complimentary copy of this book.
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